How I Lied to My Wife About Being HIV Positive to Get a Divorce – Man Shares His Story
I got married to my wife in my late twenties, and to be honest, I never wanted to settle down at that age. I felt too young, with so much life ahead of me.
Our marriage was arranged by our parents, and before I knew it, I was counting down the days to my wedding. We got married, and everything seemed… just normal.
I wouldn’t say I hated her, but our life together was casual. It felt too predictable, and as a spontaneous person, I found it unbearably dull.
After five years of marriage and two children, I felt like my life was stuck on repeat. It was moving forward, but nothing exciting was happening.
One day, I decided to visit the club I used to frequent as a bachelor. That night was a revelation—I realized how much I missed that lifestyle. During one of my subsequent visits, I reconnected with an old female friend, and we hit it off instantly.
I started going back to the club regularly just to meet her. The feelings I experienced with her were new and exhilarating. Eventually, she asked me if I would marry her, and without hesitation, I said yes.
But there was a problem: I didn’t want to hurt my wife by simply walking away. I felt that would be too cruel. So, I came up with a lie—I told her I was HIV positive and needed time to focus on treating myself. I begged her not to tell anyone, making her believe this was the reason for our separation.
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