I HATE THE CHURCH, MY PASTOR ASKED ME TO SLEEP WITH HIM FOR CLEANSING – LADY SHARES SHOCKING EXPERIENCE

I used to love going to church. I was the kind of person who would never miss Sunday service, and I genuinely believed my pastor was a man God had placed in my life to guide me. Everything changed when I started experiencing a series of problems. I was struggling financially, my relationship had fallen apart, and I constantly felt like nothing in my life was working. Someone advised me to speak to my pastor because he was known for counselling people.

I went to see him one evening after service. He listened to everything I told him and then told me that my problems were spiritual. According to him, there was a “stronghold” affecting my life and I needed a special cleansing.

I expected prayers, fasting or maybe anointing. Instead, he told me something that shocked me.

He said I needed to sleep with him. At first, I thought I had misunderstood him. I asked him to repeat himself, and he explained that it was a spiritual instruction and that refusing could make my situation worse. I was terrified. He reminded me that he was my spiritual father and told me not to tell anyone because people would misunderstand the process. I left his office that night confused, ashamed and angry.

For days, I questioned myself. I wondered if I had somehow failed God. But deep down, I knew something was wrong. Eventually, I told a close friend what had happened. She was horrified and encouraged me to stay away from him. That experience completely changed how I viewed the church. I still believe in God, but I struggle to enter a church without remembering that night. The hardest part is knowing that someone I trusted used my vulnerability and faith to make such a disturbing request.

I didn’t lose my faith because of God. I lost my trust in a man who claimed to represent Him.