She was a Prost*tute before we Married she changed But Now I am Scared of her – Man Shares
Nigerian Man came out to share his story of fear and tremble after his marriage to a known prostitute all because of pity or love.
See his story:
I used to be a frequent customer of a popular brothel in my area where I met my wife.
She was a sex worker there and I became her favorite customer. She started giving me huge discounts, sometimes when I was very broke she would tell me to pay later. Sometimes she lends me money which I never had intentions to pay her back.
I had to deceive her that I loved her to enjoy more benefits, I did this because I was very poor. I’m a graduate but I had no job then.
She later got pregnant for me. I told her I wasn’t the father of her child and even if I was I had no money to start a family. She begged me and told me she was going to buy me an okada with the money she had saved. The only reason I decided to take her in as my wife was because of the okada she bought.
After 3 years of living together I have come to love my wife and daughter but I am suspecting she is seeing other men.
Sometimes before I go out in the morning to ride my okada, I usually drop 500 naira for her to cook with. When I get back home in the evening she will serve me a rich meal with lots of meat. I usually want to ask her where she gets the money from but the food is too tempting to say no to.
She also helps to pay the house rent when I can’t and she provides our daughter’s school fees. She sells cups of rice on a small scale in front of our compound so I pretend that is where she gets her income from.
I am afraid that one day she will give me AIDS or any other disease with her lifestyle. I am also jealous that she is seeing other men. I’m afraid that if I argue with her she will stop giving me money.
My close friend advised me to borrow the money she is saving to open a provision store and also sell my bike and run away to another state for a year to punish her.
I don’t have peace of mind, what should I do??