I Can’t Bow To Any Man To Cook For Him, God forbid- Lady calls off her wedding after her fiance asked her to cook.

My name is Chiamaka(Picture not thesame as the story sharer) and I’m the last born of my family. I’ve always lived a life of pampering and luxury, because my siblings and parents spoiled me, so I never had to lift a finger to do any household chores. We had a maid and a cook, and I was free to focus on my studies and my own interests.

But then I met Chimezie, a successful businessman from Abia State, and my life took a dramatic turn. He was charming and loving, and I fell deeply in love with him. But as our relationship progressed, I began to realize that he had very different expectations from me.

He wanted me to cook and clean for him, and eventually, for his entire family. I tried to do it for him, out of love, but it was clear that I was not cut out for it. I’m a university graduate, for crying out loud! I have a career to pursue, not a life of domestic servitude.

But Chimezie wouldn’t budge. He kept saying that we would live with his parents after the wedding, and that I would have to adjust to their way of life. I was horrified. I had always envisioned a life of independence and freedom, not one of servitude and drudgery.

So, I made the difficult decision to call off the wedding. I know it may seem drastic, but I couldn’t bear the thought of giving up my autonomy and my dreams for a life of domesticity. I deserve better, and I know that I can find someone who loves and respects me for who I am.

I’m not ashamed to say that I’m a proud feminist, and I will not settle for anything less than equality and mutual respect in my relationships.

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