DON’T MARRY AN UGLY PERSON BECAUSE OF OLD AGE. THE WOMAN I WANTED TO MARRY NOW LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE I CAN’T TAKE PICTURES WITH ” — PROPHET APATA SAYS AS HE PRAISES HIS WIFE

Prophet Apata has stirred widespread reactions on social media following remarks about marriage, beauty, and aging while expressing appreciation for his wife. Speaking during a recent sermon, the cleric advised people against choosing a spouse based on the assumption that physical appearance will no longer matter in old age.

According to him, the woman he once intended to marry years ago has aged in a way that, in his words, would make him uncomfortable taking photographs with her today. He contrasted that experience with his decision to marry his current wife, whom he praised while emphasizing the importance he places on physical attraction in marriage.

The comments quickly gained traction online, with many Nigerians divided over his perspective. Some agreed that physical attraction plays a role in choosing a life partner and argued that people should marry someone they are genuinely attracted to. Others, however, criticized the remarks as insensitive, pointing out that aging is a natural process that affects everyone regardless of their appearance.

The statement has since reignited conversations about what truly sustains a marriage. While beauty may contribute to initial attraction, many believe lasting relationships are built on love, mutual respect, loyalty, compatibility, and shared values. As reactions continue to pour in, the discussion has left many asking whether physical appearance should remain a major consideration in a lifelong commitment or whether character should ultimately take precedence.