I’m a Complete Package, But My Strong Confidence Intimidates Men” – BBNaija Star Phyna Opens Up About Her Dating Challenges
In a viral video making rounds on social media, the outspoken reality star declared herself a “whole 100” and a “10 over 10,” but pointed out that many Nigerian men feel intimidated by women who are confident, bold, and fully aware of their worth. Phyna explained: “I’m a whole 100, I’m a 10 over 10.
The thing is just that Nigerian men are scared of women that are bold, confident women.” She added that most men prefer women they can easily control those who simply agree with whatever they say without having their own opinions or voice. “Our men basically like women that they can sit on their head, women that when they say this or that, she will go with it.
They don’t want any woman that has a say,” she stated. Speaking up for other bold women like herself, Phyna insisted she isn’t bothered: “Nigerian men are always scared of bold and confident girls like me because I’m a 10. I speak for the bold girls like me, we don’t care about them.” This latest comment comes shortly after Phyna publicly announced in late March 2026 that she is ready to get back into a relationship after years of being single. In that post, she humorously invited applications from potential partners, with the only requirement being “JUST HAVE SENSE.”
Phyna is well-known for her unapologetic personality, high self-confidence, and willingness to speak her mind without filters. She has previously bragged about being a “spec” (a top-tier catch), admitting she has flaws or a “bad character” but insisting that removing that still leaves her as highly desirable. She has also said any man who cheats on her would be the real loser.


I’ve always liked phyla💕