Nigerian Lady writes letter to Side chics – Read Letter
An aggrieved and concerned lady Imedo Mfon took to her Facebook page to share this letter. See letter:
I am amazed that out of all the things to aspire to become in life, it is a side chic you decided to become. Kudos.
What I don’t understand is how you enjoy playing second fiddle. Like seriously? Don’t you have any self esteem? Do you lack integrity that much? How can you be sneaking around with someone’s husband when there are millions of single men that are willing and ready to treat you like the Queen you are?
If a married man disrespect himself by deciding to ask you for an affair, at least you should respect yourself and tell him to go to hell. Some of them can be extremely nice though, but it is in your place to set the boundaries. You shouldn’t be having an affair with someone’s husband. How do you even cope with the knowledge that he is hiding you like a piece of shit? Are you that worthless?
I am very much against polygamy because it is against my faith as a believer. But even if Christianity was in support of polygamy, I am so certain that I would have aspired to be the first wife. I am sure I wouldn’t have agreed to marry any man as a second wife. I love first place. Make me your number one or you forget about me. That is how much value I place on myself. So I don’t understand how you guys cope with not even being a second wife but a side chic.
When I talk like this, people say I am talking because life has been fair with me. They say I don’t have any idea what people pass through which in a way pushes them to become side chics. Some say, the heart wants what it want. This could be true no doubt. But there is always the other side of the coin in every situation. So there is still a possibility that you are a side chic because you are indiscipline and lacks self control. There is a possibility that you are selfish and you don’t mind destroying another woman’s home.
Whatever is your reason for being a side chic, I won’t judge you. Who am I to judge? I have my own flaws.
But I think it is very stupid for you to carry your cheap self to a woman’s matrimonial home to have sex with her husband on her matrimonial bed. As in are you high on cheap weed?
That is why even though I am of the opinion that the man’s wife shouldn’t have physically assaulted you the way she did, I don’t pity you either. There is a saying that when you chose to play with fire, you should expect to get burnt. So you got what you deserved.