MY MAN IS NO LONGER ATTRACTED TO WOMEN – WOMAN SHARES SAD STORY

My name is Adeola. I’m a 31‑year‑old makeup artist living in Ayobo, Lagos. For nine years, I gave my heart to one man. We were engaged, and I believed we were building a future together. I was loyal, devoted, and I thought my loyalty would be rewarded. But suddenly, everything collapsed. He told me he was no longer attracted to women, and just like that, he walked away.

I felt stranded, like the ground had been pulled from beneath me. Nine years of my youth gone. My confidence shattered. I don’t even know where to begin again at this age. I keep asking myself how to move forward, but the answers don’t come. Sometimes the pain feels unbearable, and I’ve even had thoughts I’m ashamed to admit — thoughts of ending it all.

I’m not proud of how broken I feel, but I know I need help. I want to find love again, someone serious, someone who values loyalty. Even if it’s an older man, seven to ten years older, I don’t mind. What matters is that I can rebuild my life, restore my self‑worth, and prove to myself that this heartbreak isn’t the end of my story.

I wasted nine years with the boyfriend of my youth, but I refuse to waste the rest of my life. I’m reaching out because I need hope, I need love, and I need to believe that I will not be put to shame.