True Story of Man who cheated on wife and k*lled himself as wife refused forgiving him

This is a true life story of a man (name withheld) who was having an affair with his secretary.

A little background of the Man:

Family man. Late forties. Married for 16 years. Three kids aged 13, 11 and 8.

Earning seven figures monthly. Manager of a Corporate Organization. Owns his house and other properties around the country. Living comfortably. Travels for business and vacations. Founder of a private business.

A little background of his wife:

Business Woman. Earns her own money. Can afford the good life. Travels for business and vacations. Children are schooling in Ivy League schools in the city.

When his wife found out of her hubby’s affair, she was distraught and highly disappointed. Her union to her husband had been good all through the years they’ve been married. She could vouch for her husband that he was an upright man, faithful to the teeth and highly disciplined. She and her husband shared almost everything and were very open with each other.

Details are not given as to how wife found out of her hubby’s affair, but husband did not deny it.

He begged. He was sorry. He pleaded. He restituted. He even had his kids plead with their mother. She told the kids that it had nothing to do with them and the issue was between their father and her. The kids shouldn’t get involved.

He called family members, and opened up on what he did. They pleaded, they begged too. Madam said the same thing. It had nothing to do with them. Issue was between she and her husband. They shouldn’t get involved.

Husband kept begging, but wife couldn’t deal. She couldn’t bring herself to the reality that her loving and faithful husband could betray her and break their marital vows.

Husband paid his secretary off and relieved her of her job. He cut off all communication with her.

Wife stopped doing things for her husband. She stopped cooking his meals and stopped sleeping in the same room with him. She couldn’t stay with a man who had put his penis in another vagina. The thought of it was irritating. She stopped talking to him. They went about the house like housemates.

Husband kept begging. He was deeply sorry. He asked her for what he could do to make her trust him again. He cried. He begged. For several months, he kept begging. He wouldn’t give up. He wanted his wife back. He wanted back the love they both shared. Nothing he did or said worked.

One day, tired and completely fed up with everything, unable to take the silent treatment anymore, he drank poison and killed himself.

He wrote in his letter that he couldn’t deal with himself and live his life knowing his wife couldn’t forgive him, so he decided to end it all.

Who should be blamed for this ? Isn’t this unfair of this woman.