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My Best Friend’s wife wants me at all cost, She is pushing me Hard – Man Seeks Counsel

I really want to be anonymous because of the sensitivity of the Issue. I met this my friend more than 20 years ago in secondary school and we went to the same university and shockingly were in the same faculty.


We lived together while in school and after school he married this beautiful lady and I was his best man. He got a Job before me and so helped me talked to someone who helped me get the Job I am doing now.


I so love this my guy and to be frank I owe him a lot. He is a very cool guy.


Recently I observed that his wife has started behaving someone. I remember when my friend travelled to Abuja and I just went to say hello to his wife and their little daughter, she cooked something nice for me to eat and then sat next to me only for her to place her hand on my laps and was looking at me eye ball to eye ball. I quickly stood up and left his house.


At another time she came around my house and said she was driving by and thought it nice to branch. I accepted her in but I observed that she was just starring at me and maybe trying to get me to pee on my body I don’t even know. I wasn’t comfortable so I made up a story that I wanted going to church and need to leave before its late.


Most times she will wink at me, at some other time she will put on this seductive smile and then stare at me continuously. I am not comfortable with any of this and for no reason in this world will I do this to my own guy NEVER…. LAI LAI…. not even at gun point and I can’t tell him na, it can cause issues in his home. I just need a smart and nice advise.



One thought on “My Best Friend’s wife wants me at all cost, She is pushing me Hard – Man Seeks Counsel

  1. So far, so good.
    May the Lord help you “NEVER” to do it *LAI LAI” as you swore.
    However, the first step not to do it is to never stay anywhere alone with her no matter the reason. A 3rd person’s presence is always a safety measure.
    Again, speak to her and let her understand that you understand her games but will NEVER play along. Make her understand what your relationship with her husband is and if the need be, mildly threaten her that her continuing with that game will leave you no other option than opening up to her husband, your friend.
    Now to safeguard yourself, knowing what a scorned lady can do as seen in the biblical Portipher’s wife, before you start that discussion with her, make sure that you set your phone to record the entire discussion. The recording may become a saving grace should she decide to replay Portipher’s wife

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