My Husband (A Pastor) sleeps with the Choir Mistress and says he will Curse me if I Speak Up – Anonymous Pastor’s Wife Speaks

I have been married to my husband for many years. He is not just any man, he is a pastor, a man people look up to for guidance and prayer. To the outside world, he is respected, but to me, everything has changed.

For a while, I started noticing strange things in our marriage. He became distant and less caring. At first, I thought maybe it was stress or the burden of his work in church. I tried to be patient, prayed about it, and hoped things would return to normal. But deep down, I knew something was not right.
After observing him closely, the truth finally came out, and it broke me completely. My husband has been cheating on me with the choir mistress. The same person who stands in front of the church to lead songs of worship has been secretly involved with my husband. I felt betrayed.

When I confronted him, thinking he would be remorseful, his reaction shocked me even more. Instead of admitting his wrongs, he turned it into a threat. I told him I was going to expose him, to let everyone know what he has been doing, but he warned me not to try it. He said if I ever spoke up, he would curse me.

Since then, I have been living with fear. I don’t know what to do. On one hand, I feel like I should speak out so people can see the truth. On the other hand, I am scared that his threat may actually come true.
Right now, I feel lost. This is the man I married, the father figure of a church community, and yet he has put me in this painful situation. I just need help. What should I do?