How My Wife Was Abducted By Armed Assailants- Godwin Emefiele shares his sad story.

There are moments in life that split you into two people who you were before it happened, and who you became after and for me, that moment came on a day that started out so normal, I didn’t know it was the beginning of the worst kind of silence.

My wife was on her way back home, surrounded by the usual security team, protected I thought by all the protocols that power and planning can offer. And yet, in just a matter of seconds, everything I believed about safety, about control, about certainty, shattered completely.

I wasn’t there. I didn’t see it with my own eyes. But I’ve played it over in my head so many times that it feels like I was. Armed men cold, deliberate ambushed her convoy, blocked the road, fired their weapons without mercy, and forced her out of the vehicle while others stood helplessly by. One of the officers assigned to protect her a young man whose name I didn’t even know at the time tried to fight back. They shot him. Just like that. And then they dragged her into the bush, into the darkness, into God knows where.

When I received the call, I couldn’t breathe. It didn’t feel real how could it? How could the woman I had kissed goodbye that morning now be missing, taken, snatched from the world we had built, her fate in the hands of people who had no faces, no names, no humanity? I’ve handled crises before. I’ve made decisions that affected millions. But nothing prepares you for the silence that follows when the one you love is in danger and you are completely, utterly powerless.

I paced the floor that night. I prayed like I hadn’t in years. I made calls I never thought I would make, asking questions I was too afraid to hear answers to. And in the middle of it all, I kept thinking: What if I lose her? What if this is how our story ends with a phone call, with panic, with unanswered questions?

But somehow through bravery, through sacrifice, through sheer mercy ,she was brought back. Alive, yes. Breathing, yes. But not the same. And neither was I.

The man who helped bring her back gave his life in the process. He died so she could live. A stranger to me. A son to someone. A hero whose name I now carry in my heart.

Since that day, I’ve struggled to find the right words to explain what it did to me. How it made me question everything power, purpose, and the illusion of control. We walk around thinking we are protected by walls, titles, and systems. But when the people you love are taken from you, even for a moment, nothing else matters.

What happened to us that day will never leave me. I don’t speak of it often. But every time I hold her hand, every time I hear her voice, I remember that day and I remember that none of us are truly in control.

Have you ever had life humble you in ways you didn’t see coming?
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