How My Boyfriend left me Even after donating my kidney to Him – Sad lady laments .
This lady shares her struggles and pains of how she relentlessly showed love and care to her boyfriend and his children even after their mother’s demise . She went to the extent of even donating her kidney to him just to show his mother how much she loved him , because the mother never approved of their relationship because of their age differences.
This is how she relayed her story
“”(a) Never thought I’d be writing this with a heavy heart. I met this man here, a single father of twin boys age, 3yrs ago at a mall
The twins’s were 3yrs old then, their mom had passed after delivery. I quickly grew to love his kids like my own. Henry introduced me to his family, & his siblings adored me. I was so excited, this photo was taken the day we went to visit. However, his mom’s mood changed when she discovered I was 2 yrs older than her 31-year-old son.
Despite this, Henry proposed to me, & I was over the moon. But 9 months before our wedding, disaster struck. Henry fell critically ill, & doctors confirmed that both his kidneys were damaged, requiring an urgent transplant. Money wasn’t the issue; the problem was that, none of his extended family members were willing to help. His immediate family couldn’t match the medical requirements.
I couldn’t bear the thought of losing him, especially with his young children depending on him. Having experienced the hardships of growing up as an orphan myself, I knew I had to act. I decided to donate my kidney to save his life. This was also an opportunity to prove myself to his mom, who never quite accepted me. Fortunately, I was a match, the surgery was a success. We were all happy, but little did I know, something was amiss. 9 months later, he was dodging our wedding plans. I was left frus-trated & confused. After numerous confrontations, he finally confessed that his mother didn’t approve of our age difference, & he can’t disobey her cos she raised 4 of them all by her self as a single mom.
I was deva-.stated. Henry’s attitude changed dramatically, & he stopped taking my calls. I crled until I had no tears left. To make matters worse, l’ve been battling surgical complications from the transplant, hopping from one hospital to another for the past 6 months. The last time we spoke was 11 months ago, when Henry gave me 400k naira to sort myself out. Now, I hear he’s getting married in a few weeks.
Henry, a la l’m not sure how you sleep at night, knowing what I’ve been through coz of you. I’m currently struggling with d-pr-ss!on & ill health, all while trying to come to terms with your b-tré’yal.
How do you even feel after doing this to me? a (a)
(a) Just want to say thank you very much to you & your family for everything. May God be the judge.”