He Raped me and my Sister, I want Revenge but my Sister wants Marriage with Him – Furious Lady Shares

A furious Nigerian lady based in the UK has shared this touching and heart-breaking story with us on how she was raped alongside her sister, she wants revenge but her sister wants to marry him.

 

See her story;

I don’t even know how to start this. The same man raped me and my sister and I really want revenge. When it happened to me, I felt dirty, broken, and betrayed. He came begging and crying. He said he was drunk. He said he didn’t mean it. He swore it was a mistake that would never happen again.

But that same day, it wasn’t just me. He also raped my sister. The same man, the same excuse all in one day. I don’t know if he planned it or if it was just opportunity, but my sister and I both became his victims within hours.

I expected my sister to be as angry as I am, to hate him together. But my sister chose a different path. She forgave him. She said it was the alcohol that pushed him to do it. She said he didn’t mean it, that people make mistakes. She even says he has changed. And now, she is telling me she loves him and wants to marry him.

I can’t describe the pain of hearing that from her. It feels like betrayal, even though I know she is also a victim. How can she even think of love with the man who violated us on the same day? How can she dream of a wedding when I can barely close my eyes without seeing his face in my nightmares?

We argue all the time because of him. She says I am bitter, that I should let it go. She says life must move on. But how do you move on from something like this? How do you forgive a man who destroyed your dignity?

I want revenge. I want justice. I want him exposed. I dream of seeing him pay for what he did to us. But my sister wants the opposite. She wants to cover for him. She wants a marriage. She calls it love but I think it’s madness.

Sometimes, I wonder if she has been brainwashed. Other times, I feel like I am the only one carrying the pain, while she is pretending it never happened. It has divided us as sisters. I feel like I am losing her, not just to the man who raped us, but to her own refusal to see the truth.

what should I do?