My Mother in Law Came for Omugo after I gave Birth and She refuses to leave , It has been a Year now !!!!- Lady cries out

Today mark 1 year that my mother in-law came into this house all in the name of omugo
It all started when I was 5 months pregnant, me and hubby were gisting when I bought the topic of my childbirth.

I told him that I want my mom to come for my omugo and my husband said NO that her Mother has already told him even before I took in that she will come for my first child omugo, I told my husband honey! you know my mom is a nurse I want my mom to come since is our first child then your Mom will come for our second child but my husband refused and he told me that he is the head of this house and he will be the one to decide who come in here…

was sadey and I told my mom about it
My mother said! that’s not a problem that I should allow her to come
And I shouldn’t allow that one to cause problem between me and my husband.
I delivered my baby last year March which my mother in-law came till today she haven’t go back, she still in my house doing omugo till date while my baby is already 1 year…
This woman came with a lot of dramas, we are not from the same tribe my husband will come back from work enter her mom’s room they will be there speaking language and laughing till when he want to sleep, my husband doesn’t have time for me anymore, my mother in-law will be the one deciding what I cook in my own house.
This woman has cause me nothing but paein since she stepped into this house a
I’m tired and I don’t know what to do (
Please I need your advice.

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