I am Emotionally Heart broken Please help Me – Boy Cries out
A young Nigeria took to Social Media to share his heart broken story:
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Please i need your help, strong and sincere advise.
am emotionally heart broken, scared and seriously depress at what is happening in my relationship now.
have been dating my girlfriend for about 5years now, we both love each other so much.
cutting d story short.
we both attend the same institution,while am in my finale,she’s in a par-time program,200l to be precise. while she’s currently in school attending lectures for some time now,am preparing for resumption due to the ASUU strike.
Of recent, she has been changing her attitude and character towards me to something else i really do not understand. all this started when i couldn’t pick her calls because i was seriously unhappy with her recent i dont care attitude. recently i noticed she hardly pick my calls,takes about 1hour before replying my whatsapp text, sometimes blaming me for any failed plans or agreement,hardly apologize when she’s knows that she is 101% wrong, even when i try to caution or correct her on this,she takes it personal,pretend she don’t care and i will end up apologizing for both what i did and did not do,recently always taking advantage on my feelings for her cause she knows i love her so much.
of recent, have been generating this mindset that things between us isn’t normal,have been worried and scared cause i love her so much and i don’t want to loose her. so i had to text her yesterday that i don’t like what’s happening between us, i don’t feel good or comfortable and this her recent attitude is not normal, i had to apologize and apologize both for what i may have done in the past, present and had to even apologize for my wrongs in future if actually it has anything to do with me..i told her all my feeling about her and that i cant bare the pains of loosing her.
she told me nothing has change between us and that i am her first love and she still love me..she keeps on telling me this anytime i try to dig deep on what is bothering her.
i was very scared, worried, bothered, and heart broken when she ask me if i still remembered a guy she told me about that lived very close to her elder sister’s house, a friend of her elder sister’s husband, i told her yes, and she told me this guy has been having feelings for her that this said guy has to tell her elder sister’s husband that he is liking her.
i was so worried and scared cause this is my first love and i love her so much, and i myself knows she still loves me, at that moment,i dnt even bothered to ask more about the guy,i started expressing my feeling 2 her, that i dnt want to loose her,i love her so much and wants 2 have a future with her, i just keep saying things i really cant remember and alots of promises i made, telling and pleading to her not to hurt me with all this.
i try to ask her about her feelings and her own side of the storygrin, she wouldn’t say cause she said i overreacted when she told me,i told her i was only scared of loosing her and she keeps on telling me that she still love me and that nothing has change between us. told me not to think much about it that she is still with me..